When we are working, we often think about what those hours will buy.
Is this part of a new car, a new HDTV, a new house? We think in terms
of money -- how much per hour, how much we need to cover our credit
card bills, how much to pay the mortgage? I believe, however, that
we are buying something much more important with our work hours --
something much more precious. We are not just making money or buying "things",
we are actually purchasing little pieces of freedom. When you think
about work in this way, it takes on even greater importance in our
lives.
Not money or things
While we might like to believe we have unlimited freedom in today's
society, if you look at your life you will see that that is not quite
the case. We have to make compromises every day. We have to make
enough money to support ourselves and our families. We have to
live where
there are sufficient jobs. We have to live in houses that look like
all the others. We systematically sell pieces of our freedom so that
we may live.
That said, we also need to consider the possibility of buying back
some of that freedom every day. Saving money, under-consuming and
focusing on those things that are truly important to us can take
back moments
of freedom that money alone cannot buy. Sometimes we even have to
sacrifice money and possessions to regain large chunks of freedom
that our friends
and neighbors only dream about.
The freedom to...
So what are these moments of freedom?. I will use a few examples from
my own life. Over that last 10 years, both my wife and I have "sacrificed" a
more "normal" lifestyle in order to achieve a large degree
of personal freedom. Sure, we have to work. We have to make money.
We have to pay our pills, but we do this more as necessity rather than
a focus of our lives. We have given up the stability, prestige and
monetary benefits of corporate jobs, but we have gained much more.
We gain the freedom to be available to pick up our son each day at
school. Since we establish our own work schedules, we can decide to
go to the beach on a Wednesday when it's less crowded and work on Saturday.
To a large degree we can choose who we work for and the work that we
do. Each hour I spend working yields even more hours of freedom.
We also gain the freedom to be able to work wherever we might be.
Sure, my computer consulting business mainly ties me to the city,
but I often
support clients who travel all over the country. I am also confident
that, if necessary or desired, I could reestablish my business in
any city of significant size. I have the freedom to work for one
person,
one company or many, which keeps me from depending on any one source
for my income.
Too often, people give lip service to the concept of a balanced career.
They complain that they want more time with their family, but they
aren't prepared to give up the 100 inch plasma TV in order to have
that time. They feel trapped in their jobs because they have so over-extended
their income in buying the trappings of a good life. They HAVE to
go to work, otherwise what little outside life they have will falter.
It doesn't have to be that way. If you want to have more time with
your family, then you have to work fewer hours, not more. Working
more
hours, to make more money, actually reduces your free time. Instead,
you need to decide to spend less, so you can work fewer hours, and
then spend that time with your family. You need to buy freedom, not
things.
You cannot buy freedom with money, no matter how hard you work. You
can only buy freedom by reducing the amount of money you need to
make to support your lifestyle. Once you achieve this, your time
with family,
the time to explore your interests and the time to live the life
you wish will arrive. Remember, you are not simply getting a paycheck
each
week for your labors. You are buying your freedom.
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