Career Opportunities The High-Tech Career Handbook |
A weekly ComputorEdge Column by Douglas E. Welch |
It's ok to leaveDecember 12, 2003 ** Listen to this column on your computer, iPod or other audio player ** MP3 via Coral | MP3 direct from WelchWrite.com A heavy load I know how you might be feeling at the end
of a long, unsuccessful day. I have been there. You feel like you are
fighting with everything around you. You can’t make things work
and your co-workers and management only make it worse, looking over your
shoulder and murmuring in the background. It is like walking across a
muddy field, where every step gathers more dirt to your boots, making
them heavier and heavier, until you can hardly lift your legs. You feel
stuck and alone. Everyone experiences some form of this every
so often. It is the nature of life that there are ups and downs, good
days and bad. This should not worry you. It is when this scenario becomes
the normal state of your life and world that you should worry. If every
day seems a slog and it is hard to get out of bed, you may need to take
a long hard look at exactly what is dragging you down. Outsider What you may find is it isn’t necessarily
the high-tech portions of your career that are the problems. Sure, many
of us can get burned out on technology after working with it for years
and years. Don’t think that I haven’t thought about a thousand
different possibilities where I would never have to look at a computer
again. More frequently, though, your largest issues are really people
problems.. Too many of us find ourselves working for and/or
with people with whom we would never associate in our personal life --
people so different from you that it almost hurts -- people with different
ethics, different prejudices, different goals and different methods for
obtaining them. We often fall into companies and industries by default,
taking the first job that leads to the next and the next. Before too long,
you can find yourself in a world that is so different it can seem a nightmare. New Horizons
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